Woman says she Don't Have Sexual Feeling Anymore

A woman in her 30s wrote to Tell Me Pastor, saying that she's not having anymore sexual feeling.

I am in my early 30s and I became a Christian recently. I used to beat the streets. That is how I survived. I started having sex from I was very young.

Sometimes I had sex four or five times for the night. I was well known on the street. I went for older men. Sometimes I did not have to have intercourse with the older men. They were more interested in having me do oral sex with them.

I had a certain politician who I dealt with and I could look forward to getting $10,000 from him. All he wanted was oral sex. I have even been to his house many times when his wife was away. I have gone right into his office and taken care of his needs there. I knew his wife, but she didn't know me. This man taught me that whenever I was coming to the office, I should dress in suits and heels. So nobody would suspect anything. While I was seeing him, I was living at home, but he helped me to get a nice little place and he was helping me to pay the rent. This man was only giving me $15,000 to help me with my rent, but I was doing drugs. I used to smoke the weed. I also smoked more than two packs of cigarettes every day. But using ganja gave me kicks and I could perform any sexual act.

I became ill and this man paid all my doctor bills. I could not get over ganja use. He encouraged me to go back home, but I didn't. My clients came to see me at the house and my landlord figured out what I was doing. So he gave me notice to leave. Sometimes when I was high, I was having sex but wasn't feeling anything. I did not desire sex; I was only doing it for money.

People told me that I was looking mash down. I had to use heavy make-up and wear dark glasses wherever I went out. I got involved with a guy who used to smoke weed. His girlfriend found out that he was seeing me and she threatened me. He told me he would protect me. I got a visa so I went away. I did not stay long because the friend I stayed with didn't want me to smoke in her house. She got help for me and while I was away, I became a Christian and got married.

I am trying my best to satisfy my husband, but I don't have any sexual feelings. He told me that he cannot deal with me. He believes that I am seeing another man, but I am not. I just don't want to have sex at all. She told the pastor.

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Prostate Cancer First Signs and Treatments

Prostate Cancer First Signs and Treatments 

Most men are concerns about their risk for prostate cancer, so it’s important to understand the basics of the disease, as well as the prostate cancer risk factors And treatments.

What is Prastate Cancer 

Prostate Cancer is a small gland in the male reproductive system, located under the bladder. It’s essential in producing fluid that enriches semen, but it may cause issues as men age. When cells in the prostate begin to grow out of control, prostate cancer can develop.

Prostate cancer may cause symptoms affecting urination and sexual activity due to the prostate gland's proximity to the bladder and urethra the tube that delivers semen and urine from the body, which passes through the middle of the prostate.

Some symptoms of prostate cancer can be different for each man, and any one of these symptoms may be caused by other conditions such as an enlarged prostate, prostatitis or benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH).

The First Signs in Prastate Cancer 

The first signs of recurrent prostate cancer may include a weak flow of urine or frequent urination. Other symptoms of recurrent cancer may depend on whether and where the cancer has spread. Symptoms include:

• Blood in the urine

• Lower back pain

• Fatigue

• Difficulty breathing

• Jaundice

• Difficulty urinating

Some of the advance stage in prastate cancer, may block the passage of urine through the prostate and lead to urinary symptoms, including:

• Blood in urine (hematuria)

• Blood in semen

• Burning or pain during urination

• Erectile dysfunction

• Painful ejaculation

• More frequent urges to urinate at night

• Loss of bladder control

• Decreased flow or velocity of urine stream

• Difficulty urinating, or trouble starting and stopping while urinating

• More frequent urges to urinate at night

Treatment for Patients With Prastate Cancer

There are different types of treatment for patients with prostate cancer. Eight types of standard treatment are used:

• Watchful waiting or active surveillance

• Surgery

• Radiation therapy and radiopharmaceutical therapy

• Hormone therapy

• Chemotherapy

• Targeted therapy

• Immunotherapy

• Bisphosphonate therapy

• There are treatments for bone pain caused by bone metastases or hormone therapy.

• Cryosurgery

• High-intensity–focused ultrasound therapy

• Proton beam radiation therapy

• Photodynamic therapy

• Treatment for prostate cancer may cause side effects.

• Patients may want to think about taking part in a clinical trial.

• Patients can enter clinical trials before, during, or after starting their cancer treatment.

• Follow-up tests may be needed.

Different types of treatment are available for patients with prostate cancer. Some treatments are standard (the currently used treatment), and some are being tested in clinical trials. A treatment clinical trial is a research study meant to help improve current treatments or obtain information on new treatments for patients with cancer. When clinical trials show that a new treatment is better than the standard treatment, the new treatment may become the standard treatment. Patients may want to think about taking part in a clinical trial. Some clinical trials are open only to patients who have not started treatment.

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