Husband no longer satisfying me in bed

 

May 10, 2022

I am a married woman and I have three children. My husband is 10 years older than I am and sometimes he struggles to bring me to orgasm.

When I complain, he tells me that I should be satisfied with what he can do. But I am not satisfied and I find myself thinking about other men, especially one I know who likes me a whole lot. We have not done anything. But sometimes I am dreaming about him. Apart from dreaming about him, I find myself masturbating while thinking about him.

I used to masturbate when I was in my teens, but when I met this man and started to have sex with him, I stopped doing that. But I started doing it again because I am not getting any sexual satisfaction. I asked a female doctor about my problem and she said that I should not fret over my situation. She said that lots of women masturbate two or three times a week. I don't even feel guilty anymore when my husband is in bed with me and I feel unsatisfied. I just do what I have to do to please myself.

Sometimes I can use my bare fingers and sometimes I can use instruments. But I just have to pleasure myself at times because my husband is not hitting the mark. Should I feel guilty over what I am doing?

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